On Relationships

I just learnt that a friend of mine had just broken up with his girlfriend. What saddens me most is that this seemed to be a rather stable relationship. I respected the both of them for being so committed unlike countless other couples. Years ago it would seem that the relationship would really last. It was serious, and both of them were serious. Somehow things did not turn out the way they wanted. Perhaps the question that they are asking is, 'what else is needed?' What else is demanded of us? Haven't we given our all?

That a relationship can change so quickly in the face of a few years is a very frightening thought. I know nothing about relationships because I have not been in one. Maybe I shouldn't. Isn't it the case that singles always wish to be in a relationship, and then when they are finally in one, they can't quite commit to it, or bear responsibility? Or worse, when it hits you, there is nothing left you can do. It is hard enough finding someone who share the same thoughts as you, who believe in the same promises as you do.

Maybe that is the best way out. To stay out. To escape the unimaginable emotional hurt when precious memories suddenly turn insignificant and useless, like a Christmas present which a kid finds no more use for in adulthood. What used to be so cherished and relished now becomes dispensable.