Wise Words From a Friend

Was linking to the links of the links of blogs of friends when I found one of my secondary school friend's blog, which spoke of exactly what my previous post was talking about... only much better.

"I guess a good point to note is that before you get into any relationship, you need to ask yourself. Do you know what you want in your own life? Do you know the purpose and goal of your life and the other party? Are you getting into this relationship out of loneliness on your part or truely out of love for the other party? And, do you love yourself?

It isn't wrong to desire for love from an opposite sex. In fact it's natural. And God did say its not good for man to be alone. But people are expecting love relationships to fufill their need to be loved. Expecting the other party to always be able to understand and meet all their needs. Nobody can understand you totally other than God. People are using love as an excuse of some of their ... foolish actions. "Oh.. love is blind!....ow...."

But with God we sing... " was blind... but now... i see ... "
Our relationships with our love ones are god-given, and they enhance our journey on earth. But they just don't fufill the void in our hearts that only God can fill."

Thank you for your wisdom, and sorry for plagiarising.